Questions after a miscarriage

Celley

Hey, here’s a little bit about my story.

I had spotting May 13th. I received my bfp for baby #2 on Thursday May 14th. I told my fiancé that same day, due to being super nauseous to all food smells. *picture below on how I told him*

This was our first month trying. It happened so much sooner than expected.

May 16th, I started spotting... the on call nurse said it was normal.

May 19th- I had thicker blood coming out when I sat on the toilet. It would just pour out if me. It was getting worse. I already knew what was happening.

I went to the ob and they confirmed that I was miscarrying with checking my hcg levels. I just had what would be considered a chemical pregnancy with baby #2. I miscarried at 4w, 3d.

How did you cope with the feelings afterward?

Was it hard with your feelings when trying again?

I’m scared to try again.

How long did you miscarry for? When does it end?

How long after the miscarriage did you start your period?

When did you start trying again?

I just feel like I’m missing a part of me now.

I’m 24. Everyone just keeps telling me “you guys are still young, you can try again” It hurts every time I hear that. I know we are young, but it doesn’t take my pain away...

I cry every time I have to go to the bathroom...

I cry.at every pain I get in my back and stomach..

How long does this last... when will it end?

I’m ready for my pains to go away..

I just need some feedback and uplifting from ones who have been through this.

I never thought that I would lose a baby.

*how I told my fiancé about our baby #2*