I haven’t had sex for almost 2 YEARS

Hey, so as you can tell by the title, the last time I had sex was in June ‘18 (LONG STORYYYY) and it’s now May ‘20. Basically.....I recently just started talking to this guy and we’re planning to hang out next week and it’s pretty obvious what’s bout’ to go down. Thing is, I need some advice and tips. I haven’t had sex for the longest timeeeee and I feel like a virgin. Lowkey scared of the pain too, so please help me get ready to be a BAD BITCH again.