Throw the whole family away đźš®
I literally hate my MIL with a passion. I use to be cool with her until the thought it was a good idea to go to the beach with my son with this virus going on. Back story- me and my husband asked if she can watch him for a bit and she was okay with it. She calls my husband phone and I answer because he’s driving first thing she says is his name then I told her he’s driving and then she asked me if I can ask my husband if my son can stay the night at her house. Off what she said I already felt disrespected because I’m his mother couldn’t she just ask me? Then I just said “umm yea why do you have to ask him if I’m already on the phone with you” (in the nicest way I could). All she said was “oh I’m just use to asking him and him asking you” after that conversation she later texts my husband phone saying his sister picked up my son from her house and if it’s a problem she’ll go get him and that right there made me upset because she told us after his sister picked him up already. The next day I was at work and I called my husband to see if his mom dropped off my son already, he starts telling me his mom and his sisters took my son to the beach without even asking us(it’s a hour away from where we stay) so once I got home and he started explaining to me more on what’s happening I started getting more upset so I called his mom first she didn’t answer then I called his sister when are they coming back (my husband been asking them to bring our son home for two hours already) she says “um idk” and I ask her what does she mean she doesn’t know and then she says there going to get something to eat or whatever so I hang up and the has the nerves to text my husband phone “don’t have her call me anymore” excuse me but you have my son I don’t care if you don’t like me or not because the only reason why I would talk to her is if it regards my son. Long story short I got into a altercation with his sister because I was done with the disrespect from them trying to fight me when I was pregnant and them talking shit to me and disrespected me while they had my child. I know it wasn’t the right choice but at that moment I was ready to fight. My mil thinks it’s my fault and she wants nothing to do with me but yet still wants to see my son she even tried to convince my husband to let her see our son and got mad at him because he’s not picking her over me lol sorry but the family he makes is way more important than the one he was born with 🤷🏽‍♀️
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