Just so smothering??

She came to our home because I had my second baby, but my son cries at the sight of her because she coddles him and doesn’t let him do stuff he does normally does independently (eat, run around, play — she’ll insist on playing with him even though he doesn’t care for it— she wants to hold him all the time) I am like “can you please let him eat on his own? He eats on his own and has been for a while.” She tried to untrained his sleeping habit but I bit her head off and told her that she’ll be asked to leave if she didn’t listen. I swear I can’t wait for her to leave.