Baby shower responsibility

First off***our state has lifted pretty much all restrictions, with social distancing being pretty much the only suggestion***

My bff is 6 months pregnant (I just hit 13 weeks), and we have been planning on throwing each other’s baby shower. I figured we still had another month or so before “needing” to do hers and she just asked me if we could have it next weekend!

Now while this is my 3rd, I didn’t have a baby shower with my first two, and I’ve never thrown one before.

Who’s responsible for paying/supplying food and decorations and such?

We’re not going to play games to try and keep from physically interacting too much 🙄

But she has this huuuge list of people she wants to invite.

Gaaah sorry I’m mostly venting. Especially because she knows I’ve been truly quarantining/social distancing because I’m scared about losing this baby (6th pregnancy, hopefully 3rd baby).

Thankfully since I’m not due til November, my shower is still 4-5 months away at least!