Teen mom OG .. just not the MTV kind ..

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At 15 years old I had a baby and I got engaged. I moved in with the father and my bestfriend. She had been my bestfriend for years, and I was really happy to be able to spend so much time with her again!

When my son was 6 months old, I found out my bestfriend was pregnant

So cute, right?! We were going to get to raise or kids together! I was over the moon for her.

Until I found out it was my fiancee's baby. I walked up to him and asked "Did you have sex with _______?" And he looked me dead in the face with no emotion and said "Yep"

Girrrrlllllll have you ever been so mad that you're calm?

I went to my bestfriend and said "we need to talk" she looked worried and was like nah, I'm busy, kept trying to say no. I pulled her outside and I was like, "wtf? You're sleeping with my sons dad?!"

Yall. This bitch literally said "What did you expect me to do?"

I punched her and her mom came and told me I had 15 minutes to pack.

I got out of there as fast as I could.

They got married on his first birthday and named their son after mine. They constantly harrass me, even to this day. Theyve call DFAX 5x since then, they know its just BS at this point. They try to get me fired from my job, the list goes on and on really...

At that point, I had no car, no home, not even half of mine and my sons stuff (Exbff kept it-- Boppee, maternity dress, onesies, etc-- We had next to nothing) just my little boy and myself. Since then I've lived in 5 places, none being what I envisioned raising my kiddo.

I was really struggling for a while, even with help, to make sure we both had everything we needed. Often one step forward felt like 3 steps back and we weren't able to get ahead, just able to maintain.

It's been almost 4 years, I'm almost 19 years old and my son is almost 4. My sons father and his wife (My ex bff) have two kids now, both of which share my sons name

My son doesnt know his dad and they've only seen eachother a few times since he was 6 months old. They live in TX now, and we live in FL. I'm still dealing with the harrassment that has been neverending since the first day. They try to entice me and get me to act out of character and then flip it like I'm always like that. They wont be getting a reaction out of me. Even though they refuse to quit and have gone as far as hacking my accounts including my social media and bank accounts.

BUT

I have my own home now- 3 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms, I have my own car, job, everything! (He wouldnt let me work when we were together)

And I just decorated my sons bathroom in baby sharks and bedroom in cars (With a Corvette carbed) and I couldn't be happier! My little boy has everything he could ever want or need and I did it ALONE! I'm finally in a relationship where I feel happy 💙

So much growth!

EDIT- WOW I did not expect this to receive so much support! Thank you all so so much!! I'll do my best to reply to all the comments ❤

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