Irritated

I don't care what anyone else says little things add up. I just got in a fight with my bf because he doesn't help enough. When he helps me it's because I ask. Sometimes he will offer but not enough in my opinion. It's small situations but I had enough. Today for example we got McDonald's and this fool didn't even think let me help her with the drinks. No I put them in the holders myself while he sat there. Then I needed help with my phone while driving and he didn't even offer to help with that. Lastly, we ate at my house ad he didn't even clean up after himself. I had to do it and when though it doesn't happen all the time I feel most time it does. His excuse is he doesn't realize and he didn't pick up on it. Why the hell not??? These to me are very clear you should help out with and they are basic. Are any ladies seeing where I'm coming from? This is ridiculous. On top of that he calls this situation dumb..... Is it dumb or are you just incapable of seeing what I'm saying?