I need opinions, I have three healthy boys. I always wanted a girl obviously but just never happened im debating to try again cause of my pregnancy complications and my husband doesn't want anymore. Anyways, my SIL has a boy and she got pregnant second time and it was a girl. She ended up naming her the name, I've had picked out for years. throughout the years she knew and I knew she liked that name but I remember I told her that name before and a year later she told me but, I guess she forgot anyways, I always had it with a A and hers with an E. when she got pregnant the second time she said she wasn't going to use that name because its old she said many times no. so I guess. Well when she was born she ended up naming her that name and to top it off with an A how I always had it not with an E like she had it. I let it got what ever but I just have so much hate towards her like she is so forgetful and a liar. and when we see her she's always bragging about the name. It just sucks I never got the girl and she did with out even trying or planning and top of that first three months she didn't even know she was pregnant and she would go out and drink do some drugs and no complications and me with my pregnancies I have to get weekly shots and ultrasound monthly cause I'm high risk due to preterm, so my third pregnancy was very hard had to be on bed rest. I just hate thats its so unfair. I honestly would be better off not seeing her like on special occasions family outings. I been wanting to tell my husband I just don't want nothing to do with his sister but idk if I should make him choose, I also hate that my husband is always taking her side like calling me petty but I think what she did was petty. What do you all think, am I right to feel this way do what I want or am I overreacting get over it??