Is it bad that...

I got mad because i found texts of my husband messaging someone (i say someone bc I’m not sure if it was a male or female) saying they’ll meet them after work and they can pick where to eat and he kept updating them on how he was almost done what time they should meet at and some messages seemed deleted bc the convo would skip to something else....

I asked, he then said he didn’t meet up with anyone, like wtf?! I read the convo!

Said that yeah those messages were there but they ended up “not meeting” WHICH there was NO message saying “hey lets leave it next for next time” or “hey i wont be able to” or “hey lets cancel”

Ugh i felt stupid to even ask if it was a guy or girl he was to meet with so i didn’t even bother asking

Reason im tripping...

A few years ago i was working late shift and he was at home. (Or so i thought...)

Days later i see that one of his friends tagged him in a picture with others drinking at someone’s house on that day while i was at work.

Funny because i had no idea. I mean he didn’t tell me he was going to be heading out and when i got home he asked how my day went and said he was bored and was waiting for me to come home. See why i have an iffy feeling..? Ugh 😩

I obv later called him out on it and said hey funny story but one of your friends was dumb enough to post a picture up with you... i thought if you didn’t want me to know you would’ve been smarter to not include yourself in it or tell them not to upload

What did he answer?

“Oh yeah, i forgot to tell you...”

Im like “really? Cus i remember you said you were bored and waiting for me to come home”

He’s such a liar! And liars forget that they lie or what they said in the first place and can usually never keep up with their story! 😤