Is it a red flag that I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and I haven’t met any of his friends?

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I haven’t met any of his friends, they don’t usually hang out and it never really come up in a conversation

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I would bring it up to him and depending on how he handles it is the real red flag or not. Tell him that you’re curious about his friends and you would really like to meet them and see what he says.

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Maybe he doesn’t have many..

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Do he meet with his friends often?
Like I had to en courage my now husband to go and meet his friends I had not met, because he was so much with me, and mutual friends, that I started to think he is getting bored. 😃

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Maybe he doesn’t have many/any friends. So, I think if there aren’t any other red flags then I wouldn’t worry about it. 
I left a marriage and in doing that left behind all friends which were mutual. So coming into my current relationship I didn’t really have any friends just a couple girls I went out with sometimes. 
My current husband grew up in another state and when he came and similar to myself left a long term relationship so he also didn’t have many friends

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Not if he doesnt have very many friends. I've been with my bf for over 5 years now and he's only been around my friends maybe 2 or 3 times... just bc I dont really have friends that I actually hangout with.

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I’d say it depends. Do they know about you? If so then I wouldn’t worry, my boyfriend and I haven’t met each other’s friends and we’ve been together for over 2 years 🤷🏼‍♀️ I don’t have much contact with my friends and nor does he with his, we talk but not a lot or hang out often

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Me and my So have been together for 7years and I haven't met but 1 of his friends. 1 my so isn't a big people person so he has only a few friends. Most of his friends he works with so he just hangs out with them at work or plays ps4 online with them and his other friends lives out of state

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You’ve never even talked about his friends? Super weird that he hasn’t said anything about any friends and super weird you’ve not even asked in a year’s time.

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It’s a little strange that you haven’t at least crossed paths with one of his friends by now. Does he seem to be social?  Like does he say “oh I’m hanging out with friends tonight”?  Maybe, like me, he moved to the area and most of his friends are in a different city????  Does he talk on the phone with friends?  If he clearly has friends but you haven’t met them, that may be a yellow flag. Like maybe he has a relationship with someone else and that’s the person his friends know and he can’t bring you around them because they’ll know he’s a cheater. Idk 😐 🤷🏾‍♀️

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I think it depends on how much contact he really has with them...
My husband's best friend now lives in texas(we're in Montana) and I've never met him. They talk almost daily.
His other best friend is in Vegas and I've only met him a handful of times.
He has one friend in our city. Talks to him probably once a week and I've only met him twice.
If he was seeing them every weekend and I'd never been invited to meet them, then I'd be concerned. But since my husband doesn't see them often, I don't find it weird at all.

Is it a red flag that I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and I haven’t met any of his friends?

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