Most likely getting a divorce. Am I wrong for this?

So, I guess I should start from the beginning. I've been married almost 2 years and been together almost 3 years. And we have an almost 18 month old.

I'm currently on vacation(yes, I'm social distancing) and this vacation has been planned since January. I'm on vacation with my family(aunts, uncles, cousins, my mom, my brother, and sister in law). My husband was invited to go and in the beginning he was gonna go, then he of course changes his mind and decides to not go. But he told me to go and he even told my mom that I was going. Now, his birthday was yesterday, which we already knew this ahead of time and he told me to still go on vacation. Now today, he's pissed off that I wasnt at home with him on his birthday. Y'all, HE TOLD ME TO GO ON VACATION. So, he texts me all kinds of stuff saying that he's good for nothing, we don't do anything together, theirs no point in having our family, and then he post on Facebook that all he gets for his birthday now is happy birthday wishes. One of his friends commented saying that's all you really need and that he already has it all. My freaking husband comments back saying "it looks like that on the outside, but really I have nothing". That set me off. This man has the world at his damn feet and doesn't even see it. I do EVERYTHING FOR HIM. He doesn't even change his child's diaper or give her baths and barely watches her. He actually told his friend that he has nothing in life. Like I'm not shit to him. This isn't the first time either. He's told me this many times. He's told me to my face that he has nothing and nobody. I've tried to move on from it, but this is the last straw. I'm tired of being pushed away, then when I finally leave, it's my fault. He's even mad that I'm getting dressed up and putting makeup on while we're out to eat on vacation. He says he's mad that I don't do that for him. We never go out. He never wants to go out. It's always some excuse. I go out with my mom every now and then and I'll put makeup and decent clothes on. He actually is mad that I don't keep it on when I get home! I'll usually keep the makeup on, but I'll change clothes. But he says I dont try for him anymore. And I'm like, I can't be comfortable and wear relaxing clothes at home? I hardly go anywhere or see anyone, so when I do, I dress up a little. I feel like when I'm just sitting at home, I shouldn't have to wear makeup and nice clothing all the time. I'm chasing around a toddler who throws food at me all day and spills her drink on me constantly. And by the way, I have dressed up and put makeup on for no reason for him before. He doesn't do anything when I do. All he says is "your boyfriend must have came over today". He doesn't have sex with me even when I do have the makeup on. Doesn't wanna go anywhere with me. I've just had enough. This has been going on for 3 years and I dont think I can do it anymore. I've tried everything. It simply isn't enough for him. He just now posted on Facebook that I'm leaving him, for the whole world to see. Smh. The most immature stuff. I just needed a rant. Feel free to leave any advice