We’ve been together for 8 years and we have 2 kids and I’m on birth control so I don’t have the best libido. I have a hard time getting in the mood. He used to be able to just love on me and I’d want to but it’s not that easy anymore. He goes down on me until I climax almost every time so it’s not like the sex is bad. I just have a hard time getting into it in the beginning. Just wondering if anyone has an tips to help with me getting in the mood for sex.