Any tips for Anal...

Long story short. One night, my man was going HAM and than his penis slipped out and went into the whole hole... ive been traumatized since then... i mean we still have sex, but sometimes i get scared and lock my legs up. I seriously cant stop think about it everytime we do it.

We tried it in the past. We used lube lot of lube & butt plugs but it was always so uncomfortable... then i read on here how alot of ladies love it. I just want to know how i can get to where its comfortable.