In-Laws???

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So my in-laws have found out about my pregnancy and my mother in law has became so harsh and keen and has made me feel like I’m in trouble and this is a big mistake because my son is 8 and has ADHD and we are still trying to find the right ways to help him I’m 30 years old and feel like I’m in trouble and I shouldn’t feel like this at my age ugh

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Normally I would put this more eloquently but honestly, tell her to kiss your ass.

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That would earn them the right to hear nothing about your 8 year old for awhile. If they’re just going to criticize and make you feel like you are wrong for extending your family, I would simply quit talking to them for awhile. I know someone who’s son had cancer when he was between 1 and 2 and her family treated her like shit when she got pregnant at the tail end. She found out a couple of days before he was officially cleared. He will have developmental delays his whole life and she and her husband accepted that and wanted to have a big family. It was so bad she didn’t announce she was pregnant until the last trimester because of the way her family was acting. Now, her son is almost 4, her daughter is totally healthy, and they are a happy family...

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Wow she should be ashamed of her self just because ur son has ADHD dosent mean ur not allowed to have more kids if anything have more kids will help with him being hyper and have someone to play with my son has autism,generalized anxiety disorder and sensory processing disorder and he was my 1st pregnancy and I'm 22 weeks with my 3rd pregnancy she should be their for support and be happy for u not treating u like a kid

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I would cut her off. Your 30 years old, If you want a second baby your absolutely allowed. Your son has adhd not a death sentence... adhd kids are completely fine they just require a little extra attention. After all it’s you & your husband in it together. Be excited momma! Distance yourself from her negativity 💕

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Why would he allow his mother to talk to you that way? Distance yourselves. If she cant be civil and respectful then she doesnt get to be part of your life.

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