Taking care of toddler

im kind of annoyed with how my s/o takes care of our toddler when it comes to feeding her or entertaining her. Maybe im too anal with how i want things to be done but usually i have my maternal check up appointments in the mornings 2 times a week because im considered high risk and due in july so he will be with her in the mornings for a bit. For breakfast he mainly gives her snacks and doesnt have her in her high chair so he wont give food to her unless she comes to him. While he does this, he is always on his phone not paying attention to her and will usually just throw her in front of a tv. When i feed her i try to coax her to eat her food but hes usually the one thats like what ever she yook one or 2 bites thats fine. Its frustrating to see him giving her just goldfish crackers and fruit snacks for breakfast because she needs to have actual meals. I think he is like this because his mother never really made him meals as a kid and let them eat what ever in the house which was snacks. It concerns me and i need him to step it up. When i try to help him out or suggest him to make a breakfast meal for her he moans and groans about how he doesnt want to do dishes. Sometimes ill come home and she is glued to the tv for however long or is hungry, so i make a meal for her right after coming home from an appointment. Its just so fucking annoying.