So I’ve asked this before recently and it wasn’t quite as bad and everyone said not to worry but now I’m thinking it’s time to worry.

The past 2 months of having sex I either haven’t been able to have an orgasm or I LITERALLY take 45 minutes to have one. I feel so bad bc my boyfriend is like wearing himself out trying to make me finish and honestly I don’t think it’s him. I’ve been having problems with UTIs at the same time so I’m wondering if the two are related. I still get really wet so it obviously feels good but I just can’t finish, even with a vibrator. Ive always been one that needs a vibrator but it still doesn’t work. What do I do? What might this be? I’m really starting to get worried for our relationship 😥

PS he has not seemed frustrated with me at all about this but he doesn’t understand why I can’t finish and I think he thinks it’s him