Last Friday

Last Friday was Craayyyzzyyy!!!!

I met with this guy I've been forever texting with. Let's call him Jo. We couldn't meet cuz of covid but we finally got our chance last Friday. And of all places, Jo decides to take me to his friend's place. *He lives out of the city so was probably convenient for him to hang out there or he had other reasons idk*

I was initially against it obviously, I wanted to hangout just the 2 of us, but after he insisted I just gave in.

I went and met him at the friends place. Let's just call the friend Rick.

Rick was cool having us chill at his place, he even got me some wine, made us lunch, constantly checking in if everything was alright etc

Meanwhile everything was going horribly wrong with Jo, crazy meaningless arguments, talking on top of his lungs, he even started arguing with Rick's friend. I was turned off.

I thought he was a quiet person from our calls and texts. And i like quite guys, having a conversation and arguing are 2 different things.

At some point we (Jo and I) even had to go downstairs talk/argue and he wouldn't stop talking.

Rick came down to talk to me after Jo rushed upstairs angry and stuff.

Jo was mad because he said I was acting like a stranger to him and I told him i was because the behavior he was showing on phone is not what I saw in real life.

Rick calmed me down and we ended up chatting about other stuff. We probably took longer chatting to the point Jo came back downstairs to see what was going on. Rick leaves the two of us to talk again but I just agreed to a truce because I was just tired of arguing.

Long story short, Jo had to get back to his place because he's a busy surgeon, so I stayed with Rick a bit longer. We weren't alone he had other company. But he took my number to make sure I got back okay.

Honestly guys I liked Rick more than I liked Jo. Its like we just connected instantly and he's always checking in on me while Jo barely texts, he used to alot before meeting but now its just bananas.

Is it wrong for me to consider arelationship with Rick? I mean he hasn't asked me anything but he asked if we could hangout and spend some time together.

I know they're friends and all but I haven't slept with Jo it was our first meeting and am pretty sure I don't want to be with him even if Rick wasn't involved.

Any helpful opinion please. Should I go ahead or it's a bad idea?