Anyone feel like their spouse is sabotaging TTC efforts?

My cycles have been all messed up so I was getting signs of ovulation on Thursday...so we BD thurs/fri/sat/sun/mon. Then Ava switched my ovulation date to today but he was too tired/worn out to bd yesterday or today. He just wants to “have fun” with this but I don’t think he understands how stressful it is to time/test everything and I just can’t keep this up month after month so want to be doing our best each fertile window!! Any advice? Can anyone relate?

If Ava date is right, our chances are super low :( but if Glow is right then my O date was Monday and we’d have a good shot. Ugh. I just looking for support...