hey y’all.

so my bf doesn’t want me talking to other guys cuz of the way i used to y’all to them in the past. by that i mean, like i’d have guys who would swipe up on snap and comment a heart eye or sumn but i would say thank you or leave it on open

he even said he doesn’t want me talking to my old male friend who’s like a brother to me. we used to like each other in the past but even when it didn’t work we were still friends, even when we got into new relationships.

this morning we were on a FB call and i accidentally added one of my old HS friends and hung up after i said i didn’t mean to add him to the call and the first thing he asked was “do i still wanna talk to other guys?” i said no and asked was he being insecure? and he got upset. he said he asked me that to “understand me”

it’s starting to feel toxic and this is just the tip of the iceberg.. i want him and i want to be happy but i don’t know if i can if he’s gonna have a problem w/ everything ..