So I’ve never been in this situation. Long story short .. the man I love is very small. I know there are toys and such, but nothing feels as good as the real thing. I’m not trying to seem full of myself and I’ve never made him feel like he’s inadequate. He is the nicest guy I’ve ever met and I could never dream of hurting him .. but mentally I’m stuck in two different places. I’m working on talking to him, but it’s not something he can help or change.

Has anyone been in this situation and how did you handle it?