About 7-8 years ago this guy my cousin was dating introduced me to one of his friends. We hit it off (I guess?) hung out and slept together one time. We continued talking and went out on a few dates, nothing serious.

Well, after all was said and done, the guy my cousin was dating tells my cousin that said guy was actually married.

What the fuck, right?

So I cut the guy off completely, never saw or talked to him again, and I was completely disgusted with myself.

I didn’t have a single clue who the wife was and it took about a year for me to find out. At that point I had obviously moved on, I grew as a person and was working really hard (and struggling) to support my daughter and I so I didn’t really need any extra problems in my life. I checked the woman’s Facebook and it looked like they were SO happily together and in love.

Who was I to come out of no where and say oh by the way I was your husbands brief mistress, sorry to shit on your love parade.. I just couldn’t see myself doing that and like I said, I really didn’t need any additional problems in my life.

Now, 7-8 years later I’m happily married expecting baby #4 (#3 for my husband♥️)

I get a friend request last night..

From..the..wife.. well ex wife it looks like now

We have never met, we’re not even from the same city, no mutual friends.. no connection what so ever.

So I’m like well fuck..2020 is handing out karma now 🙄

I text my husband and I ask his advice like I always do because he’s my husband

He said “well accept her friend request and see if she sends you a message” so I’m like okay thanks 👌🏻 lol

So all day I’ve been anticipating a message from her and nothing... does she want me to reach out first? Does she even know?

What.Do.I.Do

ugh 😔