Toxic sister in law wants to be in my child’s life.. and we don’t agree.
WARNING LONG POST!! ..So on NYE, I went to my sister in laws house (My Husband has 3 sisters and he’s the youngest and only male out of all his siblings) for a party they have every New Year’s <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a>.. the house I went to was the 1st oldest sister. Never really had a issue with her. So In the party, the other sister in law was there (the 3rd oldest). We was so close.. let her live with us when she was homeless with her kids and husband, gave her money, helped her pay bills, bought food for her kids.. ect. I found out that she was doing me and her brother dirty by telling people stuff that wasn’t true. She told everyone how I never cooked, clean, never took care of my child, had bed bugs, cheated on my husband.. basically Portrayed me as a horrible mother and wife. Also, found out she was using drugs in my home..So when I confronted her, she volunteered to leave my home.. and she told everyone how I kicked her and her family out to the street. So we stopped talking. when I seen her at the NYE Party, she was under the influence of drugs and alcohol. she wanted to talk to me on how she felt. So we spoke and the conversation didn’t go well and an argument formed. Out of respect for my 1st oldest sister in law, I left. I called a Uber WITH MY 6 Y/O DAUGHTER and was waiting at the lobby in her building.. I left with out my Husband because he was taking long and I wanted to leave.. he said he will take his own Uber... he called me a few mins later upset and wanted to talk to me.. he came down upset because his 3rd oldest sister told him I gave my number and was flirting with one of her guy friends (which wasn’t true). He did admit he was wrong and apologized for believing his stupid sister.. we was talking about it and his sister just came down stairs and Randomly punched me in my face, in front my of Child. I fell to the floor and started bleeding.. (it was a very traumatic experience for her and she’s never around any fights or arguments.. ) Now, I don’t condone men hitting women.. but my Husband did defend me and hit his sister for hitting me.. We both came to a agreement that his sister is not to be involved in our daughters life. So we both stopped talking to her.. My mother in law texted us this morning asking if his sister can see my daughter and spend the weekend with her. And we BOTH said absolutely not, and now his family family thinks I’m brainwashing him into not talking to his family . I feel like if you want to be in your nieces life you need to respect the mother of your niece !! I just wanted your guys opinion on this. Please no hurtful comments or hate !
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