Secret baby

My husband and I have been talking about trying one more time for a baby girl. We already have two very wild boys ages 1 and 2 (11months apart. With all the negative comments we got during the first 2 pregnancies we decided that when we get pregnant again we’re not announcing the pregnancy however I’m not going to deny it if I’m asked if I’m pregnant.

I always have talked about wanting to have another baby around my family and always get told I’m crazy for wanting to do that or other stuff like that. Hence why we’re not wanting to announce. Has anyone done this? How long did it take for people to ask?