Painful sex with a REALLY great guy! Anybody else?🥴

Hi all!

So, I’m just curious if anyone else has encountered this issue. I was talking to a nice guy I met about a year ago and it wasn’t the right timing in our lives to date to somehow life has aligned us back again.

I’ve been in a lot of bad relationships in my past so I’m thankful to finally meet a genuine person!

However, he’s a “larger” guy. Which I mean, normally we don’t always complain if it’s a fling but I’m just trying to wrap my brain around making sex more comfortable in the long-term if that’s where this goes.

I have a tilted uterus which can make sex more painful and I can easily get micro- lacerations down there just from friction or size.

The pain generally comes from deep penetration. I always keep lube just in case.

So, I’ve done everything from using an ice pack, to desatin (yeah I know) and taking an NSAID.

Is anyone else dating or married to a man who’s bigger and have figured a way to work around it? As silly as that sounds 😅

TIA