I feel I've been giving this sick bitch too much attention. I wanted to update you guys on my husband. So far he's going through memory issues. He's doing a little better everyday. He will randomly have a panic attack. Especially if we're driving in the car. He doesn't like driving anymore because of the motorcycle accident. The bed wetting isn't getting any better. It didn't start until the rape so I think he has PTSD from it. I'm doing my best to be a good wife and help him through it. He will freak out sometimes and forget where he is. Or he will have a dream and even if he wakes up he still thinks his nightmare is real. Is there any advice I can get. I literally only have my sister's help. The rest of my family hates me for pressing charges against my cousin for raping my brain damaged husband. Has anyone had anyone with brain damage or adult bed wetting or panic attacks? Can you give me advice on how to help my hubby?