Is there something wrong w me!?!

Question

*PLEASE NO NEGATIVE COMMENTS*
Me and my boyfriend have been together years and even have a baby together. But often times he has trouble getting hard and he doesn’t like to have sex but maybe once every couple of months. I just feel like there is something wrong with me. When I ask him about it he just says he doesn’t like to or he’s just got stuff on his mind and that I’m perfect. But it still makes me insecure like something is wrong with me. I don’t think he has ever done this to any other girls in his past..:(

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Let me assure you there is nothing wrong with you! A lot of men struggle with intimacy because of past traumas and issues in their life, maybe try to have a real heart to heart with him about it since it seems to be affecting you, but it is not ur fault !!!

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The best way to find out what’s wrong is to talk to him about it.
Most guys have a lot of trouble being vulnerable and honest about what’s causing them pain, so try to be encouraging and get him to open up.
Best of luck to you both!

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No!! There is nothing wrong with you! Some guys just have trouble with this kind of stuff. Maybe he doesn’t want to do it but every once in a while because he gets embarrassed

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No, there's nothing wrong with you. Men kinda suck at the whole "talking about feelings" thing because society is terrible.
Be open and honest, and encourage him you aren't going to judge him.

Is there something wrong w me!?!

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