High risk moms

Am I the only high risk mom That appreciates the many ultrasounds/ chances to see the baby but feels like it has given the drs ammo to find little things to stress us about that normally wouldn’t be found if we didn’t have so many ultrasoundS. With my other two kids I didn’t have a heart issue so it was pretty boring and relaxed. This time around every ultrasound it’s something and some of the things I look up seem normal but the drs make it a big deal. Like babies tongue being out at times... now he could have some Kind of syndrome... or him possibly being 7lbs at 36 weeks which they are saying he’s too big...I’m so over it I wanna just cancel them And wait it out. They are making me stressed.