Married 25 yrs with 6 great kids

karen

I thought we were doing okay, not perfect but we both work hard for our family. In January, I had a feeling that something wasn’t sitting right in the pit of my stomach. I usually trust my husband on social media but I did hack into his emails and social media accounts and found so many messages to other women. When I confronted him, he basically told me that all guys send messages and accused me of having relations with other men (oh hell no!) and the crazy thing is everyone accused me of was exactly what I was finding in his account. He tells these women how he would like to get to know them more and how beautiful they are etc.

I truly am so upset because that’s my attention. I should be respected. I did nothing wrong. We no longer have a sex life and “handles “ himself now.

I just don’t know how to handle this