Any advice ladies ?

Hi everyone! I would like some advice. Whenever my boyfriend and I argue over text, I’m always the one that tries to fix the situation just so that we can be okay. There are times where I decide to leave him alone and not talk because most of the arguments that we have are caused by him. That’s why, even when some of the arguments are caused by him I’m always the one that reaches out first in order to fix a problem that I didn’t even start in the first place. I do this because I love him and care about him and I’m always willing to fix the situation just so that we can be okay. Yesterday, we had an argument that he caused once again and this time I decided to stand up for myself and chose not to reach out like ive always done. He’s never the type to reach out after an argument in order to fix things and I always do which makes me feel like I’m begging for him and that he doesn’t care Cz if he would, he would reach out first right? Therefore, we stopped talking since 12 pm yesterday and he hasn’t reached out at all and I haven’t either. I don’t think it’s fair that I always have to and that hes so used to me chasing after him in order to fix all the arguments. Am I doing right? It’s unbelievable how he doesn’t reach out to talk this out especially because this argument was caused by him.