Wedding help please!

Okay, so i’m 20 weeks pregnant now. One of my best friends is getting married at the end of next month, so I’ll be around 25 weeks pregnant. Anyway, I was supposed to be a bridesmaid but we both agreed it was best for me to drop out as I’m pregnant with third child and currently a stay at home mom, I couldn’t afford it nor would I have anyone to watch my children during the wedding/party. My husbands farms so he’s rarely home. Now my husband is telling me he’s not comfortable with me and the kids going I have a 9 yeaf old and a one year old. Because of COVID. It’s bad in my area, Minnesota. She is having 250 guests. Im not sure what to do? This girl has been my friend for 20 years.