If my husband doesn’t also work on a Tuesday I dread the day because I know he’ll be texting me at work telling me everything our 2 year old is doing “wrong”. I work 11am-9pm on Tuesday’s, the rest of the week are just 11am-4pm. But for some reason the extra 5 hours just brings out the worse in everyone. They go to the sitters house when we both have to work.

We have a 2 year old & a 3 months old. He did fine when it was just our 2 year old, but the new baby has made things a bit more stressful for him, as it would anyone.

He just gets overwhelmed way too quickly. He’s fine when we’re both home together because I’m obviously there to help but I feel like he depends on me too much if that makes sense?

How do I help him with this? I’m getting to the point where I’m having panic attacks at work every Tuesday because I KNOW he’s gonna call me at least once & tell me he “can’t do this” & I literally can’t do anything about it because I’m literally the only employee here ALL day.