Just venting

We’ve been TTC for 3 1/2 years. We are getting ready to do IVF soon, currently trying to figure out how to finance it. So anyways, I’m in a group at church of women of different ages and I love it. There’s one woman in the group about a year younger than me that at the start of us being in the group (four years ago or so) had 3 children. She’s since had another child and just announced today in a group text that she’s expecting her 5th. It’s sucks because they all know what I’m going through and I got off all social media to avoid this kind of thing. Just feel defeated. 😕