Gallbladder Recovery

sunny • New

My partner recently had his gallbladder removed. It was by four key hole sized incisions. He’s back home and it’s only been a day since the surgery. Please suggest some ways I can help him. He’s twice my size and I’m struggling to help him stand and sit. He lives with his parents but they are unable to help. He’s extremely sore and mainly in his shoulders. To the point of tears and frustration. He just told me to stop talking so he can feel better. It was a bit insensitive but I know he’s just hurting. How can we get through this? I’ve never had to take care of someone post op and it’s already getting pretty tough. Feel a bit helpless but I know he is more so and hurting. Please suggest ways to move him more easily and help with pain