So. My husband and I have sex probably about 2-3 times a week. Recently Ive noticed after we have sex he doesnt cuddle me. He gets up and goes in the living room and watches TV or plays games and ignores me or gets rude when i ask him to come to bed. Its 4:30 AM we had sex at 11ish. I politely walked in and asked him if he could come to bed at like 12:30-1ish. His response was “im a grown ass man if i dont want to come to bed im not going to. Ill stay up as late as i fucking want” 😔He doesnt even listen when i try to explain how this makes me feel. I have no idea what to do about it. I feel replaced and forgotten about. I cant talk to my grandma or friend about it because he gets angry and says “im telling everyone our business” I love him and i cant leave because if i did Id have to live with abusive alcoholics again. And i dont want to leave. I want him to appreciate me and make me feel wanted again...

UPDATE

I HAVE TRIED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT THIS.