Would you break up with him

We were fighting and he sends me a snapchat if him with a knife and no caption so I’m like “wtf does that mean” and he goes “who cares” and then he sends these

as well as a video of him pressing it into his skin with the caption “maybe i should press harder” (btw he knows i used to self harm so this is not only terrifying for me because i love him but also very triggering)

and then he says he did it because i was hurting him and i wasn’t seeing it so he had to show me. this man is 29 years old btw.

i told him how manipulative he was being and i just don’t think he gets it.