I feel abandoned by my husband

My husband keeps throwing hints that he does not want to be there during the birth of ur second child. I am almost 40 weeks pregnant. I came to my parent’s house for my brother’s court wedding on Wednesday(3 days ago) and since then I and my son have been unable to go home because my husband keeps postponing picking us up. I keep asking him to pick us up but he keeps giving excuses why he can’t... I don’t drive and my parents don’t either so I have no one else to give us a lift. I can’t get the cab because that will be super expensive(my parents live over 2 hours drive away from me). I need to be home and with my husband, in case I go into labour but he does not seem to even want to go to the hospital with me when I go into labour. Today, I begged him again to come pick us up and he said he will come on Monday(in two days time)... he even suggested that instead of picking us up, he can bring my maternity notes and hospital bag so I can stay here at my parents and my mum can go with me to the hospital when I go into labour because he says that he is working. A few days ago, he suggested that after I give birth, I can go straight to my parents house with our newborn. Who suggests something like that? I just need my husband by my side now and during delivery but he does not seem to want to be by my side. It hurts so much to be married but yet still feel so alone. I told him how I feel, but he read and ignored my message. I guess my mum will be my birthing partner.

UPDATE:

Thank you everyone for the comments... I have just read each and every comment and I appreciate the love and advises that I received. My husband came to pick us up on Monday night.. I was so happy! Happy at the thought that my husband will actually be there during the birth of our child... my excitement turned to disappointment when on Tuesday midday he sent me a message from work asking me to get myself and our son ready because he was going to take us back to my mum’s house for my hospital appointment to have our baby on Wednesday(the next day)... he said that he is working and is unable to come to the hospital with me. He chose work over being at the birth of our child. I am currently back at my mum’s house. It’s currently 12:30am as I type this so in a few hours I will be heading to the hospital with my mum.

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No I am not mean... I know the person I am married to, he constantly needs reminder and sometimes he acts like a child so you have to always probe him to do basic things like wear clean clothes, clean up after himself, wash up after himself, put his clothes away, etc. He believes that because he is the bread winner and I am a stay at home mum, it’s my responsibility to do all these things for him. It gets exhausting for me having to look after our toddler, take it easy with myself being pregnant and also baby my husband. Trust me, my husband can wear the same shirt for days and he is okay with it... what kind of wife would I have been if I allowed my husband to go to work everyday wearing the same dirty shirt? Also I was upset about him abandoning us at that point when I was messaging him

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Posters can’t delete comments, so I am not the one deleting your comment(to the lady who complained that I am deleting her comments). I am open to every advice and I am reading every comment with love. I just feel grateful to have this platform where I can talk to people about what’s going on with my marriage, because I have no friends in real life and my parents do not know what’s going on... I don’t want to worry them.