What do I do, need help ASAP

Ok so I recently moved in with two good friends. One girl, one guy. The boy, A, and I were alone for about a month. He started to like me and we fooled around for a bit. Which yes I know was stupid, we shouldn’t have because he caught feels. I ended it when he wanted to start calling it a relationship although now I’m dating someone else. He doesn’t want me to go out with him or bring him over. He is saying if I have him over that I don’t care about about his feelings, and screw him. I don’t want to hurt him, but I completely understand how he’s feeling but I feel trapped. I want to have this new guy over to cook dinner and watch tv, but my roommate is saying he and I couldn’t be as good of friends if I do. **Also we can’t go to his, i have gone there the last 4 times and he is living with parents until October**

Should I

A: have him over and my roommate can suck it up and hide in his room

B: don’t have him over, find something else to do

C: have him over another day, when roommate isn’t home

D: have another conversation (which I’ve tried my roommate blows up)

E: have him over because I really like this guy a lot