I NEED ANSWERS 😢

Has anyone’s vagina change after having a baby?

Since I’ve had my son a year ago my vagina is different.. I have the buldge or lump at the top of my hole... it hurts to even have sex anymore! I’m pregnant again (19 weeks) and lately I’ve been feeling pressure down there and right now it’s swollen, it almost feels as if I barley even have a hole!

I had my ob look last appointment and she didn’t see anything ?! I just don’t understand.. I’m not crazy!! And it hurts, it’s ruining my sex life and now that I’m pregnant I’m worried it will cause problems during labor.

I just need answers.... I don’t know what it could be!!!! Or where to go!!!! Now I’m embarrassed that at my next appointment I’ll have to ask her to look again because something is wrong!

Please any advice or experience anything will help.. I’m clueless on what it could be!

Picture to help on where I feel the lump!