Just venting

Sooo is it normal to "hate your husband" sometimes? So today we went to my in-laws she n the bf told him that got engaged...but at this time he said he had tried to get my attention and I ignored him. My 2 toddlers were inside my car and I was trying to keep them busy/entertained so they wouldn't cry since he was chatting away. His issue according to him is that I ignored him when he was trying to get my attention bc the mom was sharing the good news. So on the way home he just kept saying w.e. that he didn't care i had not paid attention to him. I mean I had to keep my kids busy...wtf is wrong w that? Honestly, I did not hear him...

We then got home...i bathed the kids...then inasked him.to dress the little one bc the other one was waiting for me in the bathroom to bathe him too. He said he did not plan to help me so he couldn't help me w either kid. Obviously he was taking revenge bc I "ignore" him earlier.

I told him he had no reason to be upset bc when we go to my family's house he gets on his phone too and no one tells him anything.

I hate that this affects me...more so makes me angry that for something so little he makes a big deal. I told him that he ignores me plenty of times and I dont get upset. I studied to be therapist so I have good listening skills and he doesn't. Many times he has left me hanging on my conversations bc he is watching something on TV or his phone yet I don't get upset. I'm so mad right now.

Anyway thanks for reading if u did...just needed to write it out and let it out of my chest.