Searching for advice

I was wondering if anyone else has been on the depo and had it change their sex drive it did mine if feel like it’s killed my sex drive me and my husband used to have sex every single chance we could and then I went on the depo shot cause my period cramps were horrible I was crying and screaming in pain every time I had my period and I’ve been off the shot for a year and one month now cause we are trying for our first baby and I have issues getting in the mood for sex I don’t know what to do and the only way I can get horny is by reading the sex stories here in the app or by watching a porno I just want to know what advice yall can give me to get my sex drive back or any advice of any kind on what to do