Hey y’all I have a beautiful 3 year old with my bf of 4 years now . I never wanted my kids to have a big age gap as I was close with my siblings but I had a baby unexpected. So I feel like I’m ready to try again with baby number 2 but my boyfriend wants to wait until we’re married . I feel like I’m in this weird limbo land because hes the one in control of when that’s gonna happen and I’m not the type to force someone to marry me now ! I want him to do it when he’s ready . But idk how long that’s gonna be and I just don’t want my daughter to be 6 when he’s finally ready lol . Every time I mention having another baby he either zones out or gives like brief comments about it ( like he’s on bored ) but than he kind of reverts back to withdrawing . It’s like some days he’s on bored and others he’s not . Has any one else had this problem ? I should mention he’s very religious so it’s weighs heavy on him now that we’re not married and we have a baby out of wedlock but he’s the one that can change it but hasn’t . If anybody’s still up lol help