Delivery

Just reminiscing about my first pregnancy with my son. I remember weeks prior to having him I said to my husband and we both agreed that no one comes to visit me and baby until we have arrived home. I was 8 days past due baby had reduce movements so I checked myself in and they kept me and said I'm not leaving until I have this baby. Turns out my blood pressure was through the roof, I also had glucose in the urine. Low iron levels and beginning of extreme preeclampsia. Anyways back to not wanting anyone in the hospital. I was induced the Saturday night for my epidural cause I'm all pro drugs dont want to feel pain at all aha. Only got to a 7.5 dilation before babys heart rate kept dropping so they elected for an emergency csection 2 days later on the monday. Fast forward to giving birthday and the Tuesday rolls around and the epidural finally wares of and I'm getting up and about using my legs etc every 2 mins a nurse came to get me and give me all the good pain meds "great stuff". Little to be hold I look at the door bare in my I'm in my period pull ups no bra no clothes hanging on for dear life trying to walk got a catheter hanging out my vag to help me pee and I look to my left a woman who's never even seen my in a bathing suit standing there arms folded just staring uninvited unannounced just there. I was so mortified I cried because hubby was aware I least of all wanted his overbearing nosy mother there. Her excuse was i was working i took a break and decided to come and see you both. She works at the hospital which isn't an excuse she was told no and me and hubby told her no together and she still took it upon herself to come at a most difficult and awkward time for me and made it so traumatizing i cant even get over it until this day. I'm due again with another boy in a few weeks and with hell and high water shes gonna hate me if she thinks shes gonna just turn up again uninvited. Just needed to rant. some may find me being ridiculous others may sympathise with me. I appreciate you all reading this far.