Has your SO ever wanted sex but you weren't really in the mood, but you like to please them so you tried to do it anyways and felt absolutely nothing? I tried to have sex with my hubby cause I came downstairs and he said he'd been hard all morning (this rarely happens) and I wasn't feeling up to really have sex or much of anything, but I tried anyways cause he rarely initiates. I got on top of him like I always do and started riding him but I just wasn't feeling it. I felt nothing. Like I felt him in me but it wasn't like I was being pleasured or anything it just felt like nothing? I couldn't make it work for him and I kinda feel bad seeing as anytime he's in that rare state of "I'm gonna initiate sex" I'm generally not in the mood for sex but any other time he can't be dominant for shit. The other day was the first time I came because of him in a long ass time because he finally took my advice on giving me some actual fucking foreplay first....love him..but it sucks not being sexually compatible at times seeing as it's how I destress