Co sleeping, how do you feel about it?

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On that note, I won’t be doing it. Unpopular opinion, i have found never safe with research and studies to back it up. Our bed is our space. Her bed is her space. I feel like it’s important to right off the bat to put baby down while sleeping and give baby some independence. Holding baby all day every day makes it harder for things to get done and for independence to be Established. Not only do I get intimate with my husband in our bed, I know I am not a safe sleeper. We both are bed hogs and kickers. We have a Cali king and still find issues with space. Mostly while being pregnant, cuddling is more difficult, haha. Having a baby in the same bed would not be safe for us.