My husband and I are childfree, and as part of our birth control method, I use glow to track my ovulation until I get sterilized. I've been noticing lately that my friends who have kids are kinda in one of two camps: they understand I'm CF, and don't bug me about it and we enjoy a great friendship and I hang out and give my love to their kiddies as the "fun gothy aunt"....and then the other group, seems to be constantly annoyed and/or upset that I don't want kids, and even go do far as to claim I hate their children just because I don't want any myself... I don't really have a point to this I guess, just an observation as my husband and I both turn 30 this year.