Ladies..

I have a son turning 2 next month, and I’m 15weeks pregnant..though I’ve always wanted kids close in age and also get done with pregnancy and birth early than later in life, I’m now cold feet and feel anxious about raising 2 kids close in age

I’ve also read online posts where many moms prefer 3-5yrs of age gap so that the elder kid will be independent enough not to bother mom with a new born

Well I have not done any research before conceding baby#2.. and now I feel anxious day by day.. worried that I’d miss my elder son , can’t spend time with him enough.. he may even hate me for not being with him all the time

Moms with kids close in age.. pls tell me about your personal experiences