Do I have a right to be annoyed?

Question

My boyfriend and I are both working from home. He finishes work earlier than I do and was in bed taking a nap. I just finished and decided I wanted to also nap. I get into bed and he says “no please” as to please not disturb him and gets an attitude. I just calmly lay down on my side and then he says can you please turn around cause he can feel me “breathing on him” so I’m annoyed and I get up and leave the room to go lay down somewhere else. Then I get a text from him to please close his door 😒 am I just being a baby or do I have a right to be annoyed

Accepted Answer

no he was being rude. it’s your bed too & you’re also tired he had no reason to be so sensitive and annoying.

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He could have been nicer about it yes but I tend to get a little ratty myself when my nap is being disturbed

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Omg this is crazy to me ..my man hates it when I lay anywhere but with him .. and if I turn away from him he thinks that I am mad at him..he always wants me close and he likes to hold my hand to fall asleep￼￼￼

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my man used to do that to me, like once though as i can recall..uk what i did? i did it back to him & thats why he doesnt do it. sometimes guys dk how they treat us until we turn the table on to them

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Sometimes I fee like napping alone too 🤷🏽‍♀️

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My ex was like that. I’m so glad he’s my ex 😂. That shit pisses me off.

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I can see both sides. I’m a light sleeper, takes me an hour to get to sleep, even for a nap, so I just want to be left to sleep. But I love my husband so I wouldn’t say anything like this to him.

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My husband is soooo crabby when he’s sleepy. For the first couple months we were married I used to get offended and hurt but when he woke up he almost always never even remembered he said what he said and told me he never means it sometimes he just says stuff when he’s trying to sleep. It still hurts though but I try not to be bothered by it because I know he doesn’t mean it.  If your bf was awake and just tired he definitely could’ve been nicer about it and more considerate considering you were both tired from working.

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Er your not going to talk to me like that tf.

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Idk I feel like you both are being ridiculous tbh

Do I have a right to be annoyed?

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