Only fans + boyfriend

EDIT: I stated below I am not making the OF, and I am now adding that I see how it’s unfair that I’d have a bit more freedom than he would and it’s not worth the possible conflicts or fights it could cause. Thanks everyone for your input !

I’d also like to add... I understand how the way I feel other girls in relationships would feel if their S/O would have bought my content and it would be the cause of fights BUT it’s my body, my relationship and my choice.

Don’t shame women or make them feel guilty for having an OF simply for the actions of MEN and the boundaries they cross in THEIR relationships.

I don’t hate on girls who have an OF never would, I never hated on the girls who my BF bought stuff from bc it’s not their problem and not their fault. It was my bf who crossed that boundary not her.

Original post:

Sooo I brought the idea up to my boyfriend that I wanted to make an only fans because I’ve been curious to have one for a while & I need the extra cash right now bc of the pandemic. but I also don’t like the idea of my boyfriend buying things from girls which he has In the past until I told him I wasn’t okay with it. He deleted it and we moved on.

So I asked him how he’d feel about it and he said that he was okay with it, just to keep him updated.

I then remembered he once bought things from girls a few months into the relationship (we’ve been together a year and 5 months)

And asked him if he would still be okay with me having one even if it still means I don’t want him buying things from other girls.

He said that I was contradicting myself and that he should be able to buy things if I was going to be selling Pics of myself.

I feel like it’s different because I would be posting minimally nude photos, basically bikini shots and I guess “sexy outfits” whereas the stuff hed buy were nude photos.

Plus I wouldn’t be giving the people who buy my stuff attention whereas he would go out of his way to follow girls and buy their content.

I dropped it and told him I just wouldn’t make it bc it did sort of contradict what I wasn’t okay with him doing but I still feel like it’s different?

I don’t think it’s that big a deal that I won’t make it anymore, i rather he and i are okay than me having an OF account and open a jar of worms (is that the saying? Lmao)

But I do feel bummed bc he seemed to be okay with it but then the idea of him buying things again just didn’t sit right. I wish I was okay with it but I’m not.

No negative comments mostly here to vent and see if I make sense.