Boyfriend keeps joking about me leaving him alone?

Question

Last night was the third time he has made a “joke” about me not bothering him. I tell him that I don’t really bother him now. He gets home from work, I make food for him, we workout, then he plays video games. I really don’t bother him that much. It’s hurting my feelings. I asked why he thought that was a funny joke if I don’t actually bother him or what makes the joke funny or why is it relevant. 
Can someone explain to me so I understand? I am just getting my feelings hurt over these “jokes” because I guess I don’t understand why they are funny. He gets mad that I get offended so I’d like to understand please.

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That's odd. I'd ask him why he says that. Sounds immature

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Sounds like he just wants a mother that will cater to him and let him do whatever he wants instead of a leaving breathing feeling  significant other that needs attention and kindness. 
The fact that you already told him it bothers you and he still does it is a red flag. 
You can choose to put your foot down and tell him not to call you a nag again. That you don’t find it a joke and that the things you ask for are valid. 
Or you can let him continue and put up with it. 
It’s your choice. Always choose yourself 💖

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Not in the heat of the moment have a conversation on how he would prefer to do things. Jokes are usually to disguise how he’s really feeling and communication is key. Is he someone that maybe likes to work out alone, is that his own *me* time? Would you be interested in video games if you played together? Some things to consider

Boyfriend keeps joking about me leaving him alone?

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