Does my boyfriend have the right to know where I am?

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I'm 28 and he's 30 my boyfriend and I had an argument yesterday. He's mentally and emotionally abusive and basically always tries to act like nothing happened and just expects me to get over everything. Yesterday he compared to me negatively too his other child's mother and didn't apologize or aknowledge that was something he shouldn't have done. Unfortunately I'm currently pregnant and I woke up crying this morning so I felt I'll just spend the day out the house to myself going to the park, shopping whatever. He called and feels like he has a right to know where I'm at and what I'm doing and I'm simply just saying I'm grown I'm just a way for the day is this wrong?

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So his mentally /emotionally abusive and his a baby daddy to another woman but u still procreate with him. OK

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You need to leave him. He’s abusive - you admitted that yourself.
Don’t bring children into that. Leave.

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I mean personally I think for respect and safety reasons it’s good to let your partner know your whereabouts. If my boyfriend spent the day out and refused to tell me what he was doing I would be VERY concerned and I know he would feel the same if I did that.

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You described him as abusive, so why do you stay?
This relationship isn’t healthy. I tell my husband where I am or at least a time frame I’ll be gone and he does the same. This was even before we had a baby. It was common courtesy for us.
But you are trying to escape him, please utilize your support system to leave for you and your baby. You can coparent separately the baby isn’t a reason to stay

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I mean you already know he’s abusive so why don’t you leave and block him?

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I think in general it’s reasonable to tell your partner your basic plan. 
As soon as they are abusive, it all changes. You owe him nothing, and you should really get yourself out of the situation permanently.

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If I was pregnant, upset and out by myself, I’d likely tell him way I was for safety reasons. But if he is demanding to know where you are because he’s going to show up or follow you, nah.

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Don’t stay if he is abusive

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Id he pissed if my husband didn’t tell me where he was or doing what if I asked. He would be too. It’s respectful to communicate 🤷‍♀️

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Well here’s the thing if you are saying he’s abusive then knowing where you are may be a control thing. In my relationship however I let my boyfriend know where I’m going and what I’m going to be doing and when I should be back. I do this so he knows and knows I’m not dead in a ditch somewhere. He also lets me know the same things. It’s just a thing we do in our relationship though and nothing that has ever been said or like either of us have been like I absolutely need to know your whereabouts and plans.

Does my boyfriend have the right to know where I am?

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